Monthly Archives: October 2016

Happy and Healthy Marriage Life

Marriage is an Social, Cultural, Emotional, Economical, Physical, Psychological bonding (SCEEPP) between an men and women. It is highly impossible to get a spouse who matches 100%. But it is important that everyone should know the limitation of
the spouse. Otherwise either one or both need to suffer. In most of the cases, the dominant person would suppress the feelings of his/her spouse which lead the spouse to suffer. Married couple can lead an happy life as long as there is no damage done in SCEEPP. We often see couples look very happy for few years and they started complaining about each other. In any relationships, we would look the positive on other person and life would go happily. Based on one’s skill and capability, it will take days to year to evaluate other person. As soon as we see any negativity on other person, the bubble will burst one by one.

 

How to maintain healthy relationships?

1. Trust

Trusting spouse would give happiness which also make his/her spouse more responsible

2. Tolerance

Zero tolerance may be successful in work life, but definitely not in family life. It needs certain level tolerance to understand spouse’s situation (like work life tension, financial issue). Based on the spouse’s situation one can act or help.

3. Provide personal space

Marriage does not mean that men and women needs to forget the personal goals and dreams. Everyone has personal space and it is important to spend time to grow personally and professionally. But it is important to make the spouse to understand the personal and professional goals and justify it in advance.

4. Good communication and Help each other

In a ever changing world, we may miss the commitment like accompanying spouse to dinner or present jewels for birthday, etc.. Due to some unavoidable circumstances
one may not able to achieve the promises. It is important to communicate and help each other especially in difficult times as soon as possible to avoid the conflict and mistrust.

5. Mutual respect

Married Couples needs to respect each other especially in-front of children and others. One would ready to face the consequences immediately or later if he/she disrespect spouse
in-front of others. So try to give respect each other.

6. Say Sorry

Nothing wrong to say sorry to his/her spouse for an mistake. Mistake will be forgotten immediately as a relief and good suggestion/advice may be given as a bonus from spouse.

7. No ego

Ego is a slow poison. It won’t takes us anywhere. Leaving ego make life happy

There is a famous quote “Men from mars and women from venus”. So even though men and women are human, it is not necessary that they would think and act similarly. Every married couples lead life happily if we understand the above quote.

Love and Live happily 🙂

 

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Shared Folder Between Windows and Oracle VM Virtual Box

  1.  Create an folder on Windows. For example, C:\Shared
  2.  In Oracle VM VirtualBox Manager select Settings for the OS installed and choose the folder to be shared with OS running on VM. In our case, OS is Centos 7.2 and the shared folder is C:\Shared

sharedfolder_centos7_to_windows7

3. login to Centos and create Shared folder. For example, /media/Shared

4. Execute the command mount -t vboxsf Shared /media/Shared/ 

Please note that, first 2 steps should be followed on windows. Next 2 steps should be followed on Centos (VM instance)

We should able to shared folders and files between Windows and Centos after following these 4 steps.

Passwordless SSH

1. Generate public and private keys using ssh-key-gen

[root@localhost .ssh]# ssh-keygen
Generating public/private rsa key pair.
Enter file in which to save the key (/root/.ssh/id_rsa):
Enter passphrase (empty for no passphrase):
Enter same passphrase again:
Your identification has been saved in /root/.ssh/id_rsa.
Your public key has been saved in /root/.ssh/id_rsa.pub.
The key fingerprint is:
7c:a8:e5:63:4c:f0:77:4c:e4:b1:b4:7f:16:91:73:2b root@localhost.localdomain
The key’s randomart image is:
+–[ RSA 2048]—-+
| + ..|
| + + oo|
| . = .+|
| + . o E ..|
| S o o o o|
| * o . o |
| . = |
| . . |
| |
+—————–+

2. Copy the generated local machine’s public key to remote-host using ssh-copy-id
ssh-copy-id command will append the keys to the remote-host’s .ssh/authorized_key.

[root@localhost .ssh]# ssh-copy-id -i ~/.ssh/id_rsa.pub 10.21.170.1
/usr/bin/ssh-copy-id: INFO: attempting to log in with the new key(s), to filter out any that are already installed
/usr/bin/ssh-copy-id: INFO: 1 key(s) remain to be installed — if you are prompted now it is to install the new keys
root@10.21.170.1’s password:

Number of key(s) added: 1

Now try logging into the machine, with: “ssh ‘10.21.170.1’”
and check to make sure that only the key(s) you wanted were added.

3. Login to remote machine using ssh without issuing password

[root@localhost .ssh]# ssh 10.21.170.1
Last login: Tue Oct 11 15:55:44 2016 from root

BSE/NSE Trading Holidays

1 Republic Day January 26,2016  Tuesday
2 Mahashivratri March 07, 2016  Monday
3 Holi March 24,2016  Thursday
4 Good Friday March 25,2016  Friday
5 Dr.Baba Saheb Ambedkar Jayanti  April 14, 2016  Thursday
6 Ram Navami  April 15, 2016  Friday
7 Mahavir Jayanti  April 19, 2016  Tuesday
8 Id-Ul-Fitr (Ramzan Id)  July 06,2016  Wednesday
9 Independence Day  August 15,2016  Monday
10 Ganesh Chaturthi  September 05, 2016  Monday
11 Bakri Id  September 13, 2016  Tuesday
12 Dussehra  October 11, 2016  Tuesday
13 Muharram  October 12,2016  Wednesday
14 Diwali  October 31 ,2016  Monday
15 Gurunanak Jayanti  November 14, 2016  Monday

Skills parents should teach young kids

One of my friend says Be kind and polite to his young son very often. I was searching in the internet on what to teach to young kids which will help the kids to lead better life. I have come across an nice article written by Daniel Otero  in the site http://futurehandling.com/2016/09/20/its-not-all-about-test-scores-and-grades/.  I have seen many people struggling in life even though they were very good in academics.  Also, i have seen many people who were average in academics but succeed in life. So, getting good grades in academics would not sufficient to lead better life . In this article, Daniel nicely explained the eight skills parents should teach their younger kids.

  • You can’t always get what you want
  • Must learn to respect each other
  • Be kind to others and animals
  • Cope with emergencies
  • Not everyday you can be happy
  • Learn the reality of the world
  • Stranger doesn’t always equal danger
  • Common sense and knowing your surroundings

Every culture has its own unique way to teach these skills to kids. Learning these skills will help the kids to deal good and bad times.